MIX IT UP | matching books with the ‘Promising Young Woman’ soundtrack

Welcome to the first ‘Mix It Up’ post, aka my excuse to talk books and another random thing I love. The idea is to have a specific theme and match aspects of it to books.

today’s theme is…

the promising young woman soundtrack

You watch some movies and appreciate all the little details of the production. The clothing, the direction, the lighting, the message and the music. Today, I am highlighting the music in Promising Young Woman.

(i half-apologise for being so gif-happy. avoid WordPress reader if you can)

PROMISING YOUNG WOMAN: A young woman, traumatized by a tragic event in her past, seeks out vengeance against those who crossed her path.

genre: mystery, crime, thriller, feminist

rating: 15

director & writer: Emerald Fennell

music by Anthony Willis


The first song. The first scene. And I was already in love. The way the men dancing didn’t have faces, like women dancing in every single movie. Didn’t it feel weird? As weird as it should be when it happens to women. Power move. The song choice was perfect. Literally perfect.

“I wish I had a better excuse like
I can’t even lie, you got me
I was busy thinkin’ ’bout boys, boys, boys”

I love Queenie, and she grows so much throughout this novel. At the start, she felt a little lost, especially towards sex and men. You experience her as she overly relied on them for her self-worth and as they occupied too much space in her mind. It was a bit of a toxic relationship, and seeing her come out of this section of her life was satisfying. Safe to say, this book matches the song very well. Queenie was busy thinking ’bout boys, and shocker, they weren’t worth it.


These lyrics are open to a lot of dark and heartbreaking analyst. For example, you accept the worst behaviour from those you love. Or how only through violence does he react to what you are doing. In turn, making violence the only evidence that he acknowledges and cares for you. This song, particularly this version, is dangerously beautiful. How interesting it was used on a sweet first in the movie.

“He hit me
And I knew I loved him”

I haven’t read a suitable book for this song, so I am including one of the TBR…


Whilst I have read books dealing with abuse, this book has an approach which matches the song best. In The Dream House is a memoir-like account of being in an abusive same-sex relationship but with a spin. Involving wit and creative use of horror themes creates a distinct narrative. This narrative promises devastation, haunting and beautiful writing, like the song. I believe both have come from a place of true pain.


I picked this song as it is the easiest to remember and picture from the movie. It is funny, sweet and happy. It gives you all the rom-com vibes. Picture perfect. Even though the world is broken, this moment was faultless. What could go wrong?

“Let’s see what this love can do
Baby, I’m perfect for you”

Tiffy, scarred by a past relationship, is cautious when approaching new love. Thankfully, Leon shows a lot of promise. He is kind, gentle, considerate and supportive. Of course, he is fictional πŸ˜‰. But this does make for a sweet and tender relationship to blossom throughout the book. Plenty of good vibes, even with a dark past, so very representative of this song.


Spoiler for the movie, so I am going to leave my answer in a drop down box, click here.

(content warning: rape) Whilst this song isn’t part of the official soundtrack, I thought it was an interesting addition to the movie. The words ‘this is a man you’ll forgive and forgive’ serenade the screen as a rapist and now murderer burn Cassie’s body. A rapist who was protected by multiple people. He was forgiven by them and even the law for raping someone. Reminder: it was not the rape that caused his imprisonment. In fact, it will only be him (and Ryan) that is aware it was the rape that led to his imprisonment, a satisfying sentiment but a reminder of the justice system’s failures. It was hauntingly true.

“This is a man you’ll forgive and forgive
And help and protect as long as you live”

The movie and this book are very well matched in themes and messages. If you’ve experienced them both, you’ll know why I picked this book. They both examine rape culture and have an end that ultimately unpicks the injustice in the justice system around rape. The men can live on without consequence. The book, movie and placement of this song are all used to reflect this message in different but ultimately powerful ways.


The credits song was Last Laugh. Quite a fitting title. Even though laugh means happy, the meaning of the phrase ‘last laugh’ and this song is much more dark and twisted. It is about comeuppance and having the final say. Finally, I love LOVE the fake laughter in this song… a mocking, haunting sound. It is so distinct and atmospheric.

“I’m that bitch, I do the most
Haunt you everywhere you go
Making you believe in ghosts, yeah, yeah”

Did I just choose to associate the word laugh with a rom-com book? Maybe, but shockingly Promising Young Woman and Dial A for Aunties have similar starting points for their plot. With VERY different approaches.

In this murder rom-com, you get a chaotic plot full of secrets, weddings and family. Our main character, Meddy, juggled many things, and I loved how quietly powerful she was. Battling fire after fire with this endearing, kind approach. It made you laugh. It made you gasp. It made you angry. She was doing the most and had the last laugh, definitely with one guy and some others too.

divider. In centre is a red and pink mushroom/toadstool, on the left and right are pink swirls.

There are many more excellent song choices in this movie, but I’m not covering them all. Therefore I highly encourage you to check out this movie and soundtrack if you haven’t already. They are phenomenal. Do check the trigger warnings for the movie first (feel free to ask me).

Have you watched this movie? What did you think of the soundtrack? Any favourite songs/moments? What do you think about any of the books I’ve matched to these songs?

12 thoughts on “MIX IT UP | matching books with the ‘Promising Young Woman’ soundtrack

    1. It was a stunning movie. I loved so many of the little details in it! I had too much fun with the gifs πŸ˜… but ahh… thank you sooo much! It makes me so happy to hear you liked this post πŸ₯°πŸ’— yay, thank youuu!

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          1. I could offer you some random trivia info about it, if you want to?

            1. The male roles were specifically cast with actors who had a background in comedy or people associated warm feelings with. It was to show that you never know who is “safe” and even the harmless ones can be harmful.
            2. The names have significance: Nina means girl because she could have been any girl. It could have happened to anyone.
            Cassandra in mythology is the prophet who is never believed
            3. Do you remember the choking scene? The director asked a family member in law enforcement how long it would take to suffocate someone and they said 2.5 minutes, which is why that’s roughly the amount of time that the camera holds that scene.
            4. The pen color in the notebook where she marks her night’s out depends on how the guy’s acted and what lesson she taught them

            Then there’s the use of color and how it’s deliberately never explicit in what it shows. Sorry this got so long haha

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            1. Thank you so much for sharing this trivia. I genuinely found it so interesting and I will probably send it to my sister, as she loves the movie too. Before me even.
              I thought Bo Burnham’s casting was really good, and the movie was good at showing “harmless” ones as harmful. One moment that struck me was how Monroe cried so much after the incident… “villains” don’t typically do that. An almost frightening reminder how human he was in a way.
              The names and pen colours is so cool and specific, I would never have noticed that.
              The choking scene felt long when watching it… Powerful, and even more so now I know that!
              No, thank you again for sharing. I cannot tell you how much I loved learning this trivia. So clever!! ❀️

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  1. AHHHH SOPHIE I LOVE THIS POST SO SO MUCH!! i haven’t watched the movie or heard the songs, BUT I SHALL GO STEAL SPOTIFY AFTER THIS!! and all the gifs you included – AHHHHHH I LOVE!!! THEM!!! also IN THE DREAM HOUSE sounds so good??? I NEED. and ahhh the way you described dial a for aunties???? IT IS PERFECTION, I TELL YOU!! YOUR POSTS ARE LITERALLY ALWAYS THE MOST CREATIVE EVER AND I LIVE FOR THEM OK 😭❀❀

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    1. THANK YOU SOO MUCH ANOUSHKA!! πŸ’—πŸ’— I am sure I have said this before, but your comments always have the best energy. Thank you! I definitely support you checking out the spotify playlist…. a lot of great songs!! 😍 The gifs were so fun to include haha! thank youuuu!
      In The Dream House sounds amazing and there are a lot of good reviews for it! I can’t wait to read it!!
      ahhh.. dial a to aunties was a lot of fun to read. It delivered on a lot of aspects!
      thank you again, ahh… that makes me so happy to hear. Thank you sooooo very much for this comment, it has made me smile a lot!! πŸ’—πŸ’—

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    1. Thank you sooo much πŸ’— this movie had a great production, and plenty of aspects you could analyse. I hope you like the movie when you watch it! ahh… thank youuu!! So glad you liked the post and books. πŸ₯°πŸ₯°


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